Jesus Cares...and He makes a difference! We just
passed graduation month. You know... caps and gowns, lots of children and young
adults receiving diplomas, students full of excitement for their future.
Depending on what phase of life you are in, you might have attended one or two
of these recently. The ones we celebrated this year carried some very special
memories for us. The memories are of a magnitude that I could never share fully
in this newsletter. I can recall young mamas in agony over facing single
motherhood, the grief of dashed dreams, and the terrifying fears of futures
that seem so beyond their control. Yet those thoughts are contrasted with
prodigals who came home to face their pain and fears alongside of a powerful
and forgiving God who held out the gift of mercy as He exchanged beauty for
ashes. I have had the privilege of watching these mamas down through the years,
not always perfect but perfectly united to a Savior who could accomplish far
greater victory with His mighty right arm than they could have ever imagined. With their permission and
with great privilege, we share with you, our faithful supporters, what has been
accomplished in the lives of those that have been impacted by the ministry of
Jesus Cares. We invite you to share in our joy at the life changing power of
the gospel in these lives as you see the fruit of a changed life evidenced in
the next generation.
Sarah and Tristan's Story
“At 18 years of age, I had moved out of my home and was
hopping from house to house on my own. I had turned my back on God and embraced
the world and eve rything that came with it. I was caught up in a whirlwind of
drugs, a fast life, and a roller coaster of mental illness. I almost died
multiple times, ended up in a drug rehab, and a mental hospital. Not even a
year later, I found myself pregnant and at Jesus Cares doorstep. I turned my
life back over to the Lord and embraced his plan for me as a young mother. I
was truly saved through childbearing, and the day I held that sweet baby boy in
my arms I knew I could never go back to the way things were. It wouldn't always
be easy, but that day I truly committed myself to raising him to love the Lord
with all his heart, soul and mind.” “At 18 years
of age, (on June 29th) Tristan is a patient, easy going young man with a kind and
gentle spirit. He loves Jesus and adores his 3 little sisters. He is a hard
worker and always willing to lend a helping hand. He will be the first to admit
that he is a Star Wars and technology nerd! He enjoys helping others with their
computer problems and graduates from our home school with 27 college credits
towards his AAS in Computer Network Engineering. He is taking the summer off
from school to go to church youth camp and serving on the church media team, as
well as spending time with our family. He will also finish building his Storm
trooper costume so he can join the Star Wars 501st charity group which goes to
children's hospitals and participates in local charity events.”
Sarah
entered our women's maternity program in 1998. After giving birth, she trembled
as she thought of putting her newborn in childcare. She so wanted to protect
him under her wings! We prayed for the Lord to make a way for her by providing
a career that would be adequate enough to sustain her as a single mother and
eventually an opportunity to be a stay at home mom. Quite a tall order for the
time but nothing is too difficult for ourGod. In 2003 Sarah and Brando n,
Tristan's father, were married and by 2004 she was a happy homeschooling mommy
with job opportunities she could do from the home. The Lord picked her up from
the mire as she called out to Him (Psalm 40:1-2). He set her feet upon a
rock... the Rock of Christ! What an inspiration to see her son walk a different
path because Jesus made a difference!
Enid and Desmond's Story
At 18 Enid
had dropped out of school. She was working to support herself, and would admit
to sowing a few wild oats! Many aspirations had filled her heart but somehow,
as a new American citizen immigrating from Sierra Leone, the ability to follow
her dreams was evading her. A few years later, in her early twenties, she found
herself pregnant and hopeless, with thoughts of swallowing bleach swimming
around in her head. She had made an appointment to terminate the pregnancy but
the Lord quickly intervened with His plans for Desmond, as he would come to be
named by his mama. As she was
contemplating swallowing the potentially deadly drink, there was a knock at her
door. On the other side stood a young family who had lived in her complex,
extending an invitation to go to church with them. They stayed and chatted a
little longer than she wanted and by the time they left her appointment at the
women's center had come and gone. She would need to reschedule but that
appointment never came to fruition. Neither did her appointment with the bottle
of bleach. Through another series of divine interventions, Enid arrived at our
doorstep still pregnant with her firstborn child. She was pregnant with
something else that she didn't expect when she chose not to terminate the
pregnancy. Hope had been stirred in her heart and redemption was on its way to
bring her and her child to a brand new path paved with mercy and divine
possibilities. As
I watched Desmond coming onto the stage, I was poised to give my best whistle.
Not very feminine but a unique gift that had been bestowed upon me as a mother
of many children. When feeling like the mother who lived in the shoe with so
many children she did not know what to do, it did come in handy when things got
a little rowdy around the home. Nothing like a piercing whistle to stop hostile
arguments! This time the famous whistle would announce my joy at the young man
who was now walking across the stage. A young man full of potential, wisdom,
and in his own words, “complete faith in the Lord.” Not only was I blessed to
know His Godly character, zealous pursuit of education, and hard work ethic but
the young men who were also there cheering him on, his closet friends, had the
sweetest spirits and exuded genuine faith in the Lord as well. Time has gone by
so quickly. Jesus has made all the difference in Desmond's life. He is
preparing for college and intends to pursue a career in law.
One
of the teachings Enid received at Jesus Cares that she would constantly fall
back on was a unique lesson from the
avian world. The cowbird was an encroacher that would neglect its young by
laying their eggs in the nest of another bird in order to go about a carefree life of ease. The expectation
would be upon this stranger to take on the cowbird's responsibility. Enid was
fascinated with this story and convinced she would never imitate the
irresponsible behaviors of the cowbird. She was determined to learn her lessons
well. When I would call her over the years to announce a surplus of food and
toiletry items in the ministry, she would immediately say, “I do not want to be
a cowbird!” What a joy to know that a
simple lesson had such an impact. We are so blessed to be a part of this precious
family for almost 20 years. We are affectionately called, “My White Mom” and
“My White Dad.” The Lord has blessed us with an African child and grandchildren
who love the Lord. Catie and Sue's Story “Going back from when
I was a little girl, about 5 years old all the way until I was about 28 years
old my life was rough. My Mom passed away from breast cancer when I was 10
years old. My biological father abandoned me my entire life. My step-dad raised
me after my mom passed. Our relationship was often rocky. I struggled with
feelings of abandonment and that led me to involvement in an unhealthy
relationship. I had a child and struggled with knowing what would be best for
her. During this time, I shut out my family and the people who really loved and
cared for me. I basically wasn’t
listening to anyone and made bad choices.
I was also not very
happy. I had anger built up inside and grief. It was around this time that I
was introduced to Jesus Cares Ministries by my uncle. They introduced me
to GOD and helped me untangle the grief
and pain. I am a much different and better person now. I have changed; I can
feel it myself. I can be an even better mother and the mother I want to be to
my daughter because I now look up to GOD and allow him to take the wheel and
control of everything. I have forgiven everyone I needed to forgive so I don’t
have anger built up inside anymore and so all of this combined turned me into a
different person in a positive way. I am much happier now on top of turning my life around for the best not only for me but more
importantly for my daughter, Sue. All of this happened because of GOD being in
my life and working with the ministry for 3-6 years. Every day I look up to GOD
and know I can have and get everything I need and want from Him.”
This little graduate is safer thanks to family members that
have helped to provide a good support system and a mama that has taken steps to
uncover her own loss issues in order to move towards healing. Sue is not the
only graduate in this family. As Catie and I met for our last session recently,
she closed the last page of her workbook. Catie has been working hard on a
course with Jesus Cares Ministries that identifies abandonment issues and
introduces the participants to a relationship with the Heavenly Father. This
month marks a one and a half year journey through this book. Catie went through
her own graduation, from ashes to beauty from despair to amazing hope for her
future. She has some other mountains to conquer but we have been greatly
privileged to walk alongside of her and will continue to be a support system
for Catie and Sue. We
are grateful that her family cared enough to seek out the support system of
Jesus Cares Ministries. We are honored to see the fruit of two generations
touched by the hand of the Savior.
Congratulations Graduates
On
behalf of the board and ministry partners of Jesus Cares we congratulate our
graduates and the hard working, Jesus-loving mommies and caring family members
that made their graduations possible!
This passage
sums up the newsletter so appropriately. It describes our heart to see His work
carry on from one generation to the next among those we have seen restored and
redeemed through Jesus Cares Ministries: "Great is the LORD, and highly to be praised, And His greatness is unsearchable. One generation shall praise your works to another, And shall declare Your mighty acts." Psalm 145:3-4
Thank you for making all of this possible!
Jesus Cares
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